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    Wednesday
    07Oct2009

    Thailand Hotel Attempting Church Relevance

    This picture is an actual flyer I got in my hotel in Chiang Mai, Thailand. I absolutely love it. In case you can't read it - here are some excerpts.

    • Dear My Guest
    • Beverage rate in refridgelator
    • "another beverage and snake you can buy at office"
    • Please bring your cloth to office
    • Free coffee in small house every day
    • For another question you can ask me later

    I think this stuff is so cute. But still... I'm wondering if my "refridgelator" will hold my beverage and "snake" that I buy at the office. And what "cloth" do I take to the office? Is that near the small house with the coffee? I only see a hotel with a clubhouse-sort-of-building. Honestly, I didn't have any questions until I read this unsolicited flyer in my hotel room. The last thing I want to do is get "another question" from this gal later.

    Sound familiar? I think many churches, including Impact, can communicate in very similar ways to our 'target market.' As a church in Elk Grove and Sacramento, how many times have we used language that the people we are trying to reach just 'don't get?'

    Communication is a KEY to reaching others. How are you doing? Do you use a lot of words like 'blessed' and 'hedge of protection' and 'my walk with God?' I'm really thinking that this type of language is like the well-meaning office manager who put that flyer in my room.

    Oh - just so you know, I appreciated the effort of this office manager and  did take her up on doing my laundry. I looked past the miscommunication and to the heart of her message. It was actually helpful. But are our neighborhoods as apt to overlook our miscommunication? If we communicate more intentionally, we won't have to worry about it.

    Friday
    21Aug2009

    City Hope '09

    Here is another update on City Hope '09 which begins Sept 12/13, 2009 in Elk Grove and at Impact... with the inauguration of our first Saturday night service (which is very cool, by the way).

    As a part of this incredible way to impact our community, our small groups will be participating in various 'projects' over the 40 days (7 weeks). Here are a few ideas of what those projects might look like:
    * Blood Drive
    * Mentor Development for Men and Women
    * Job Fair
    * Adopt A School
    * Senior Center of Elk Grove

    And so much more. This is going to be one of the best things that has ever happened to the churches in Elk Grove. When God's people join together - from ALL denominations - to do a work in the name of Jesus alone... GREAT THINGS ARE IN STORE!

    It will be SO cool that for 7 weeks - we will be known as "The Church At Elk Grove" - NOT Impact Community Church... NOT First Baptist Church... NOT Lifepointe Christian Church... NOT Grace Community Church. For 40 days, we will be "The Church At Elk Grove."

    And for that - I am TRULY EXCITED! More information coming in the next week or two! Yard signs, 40 Day Devotionals, and Small Group Curriculum will all be provided for you! SWEET!

    Tuesday
    11Aug2009

    Sacramento Bee - Fox 40 News - "Am I Being Painted As The Bad Guy?"

    The Sacramento Bee ran an article this morning on pastors who use other pastors' messages as a source for ideas and content in their own preaching. This is something I've always done. It's no secret. No big deal. Nothing to be ashamed of... right?

    Well, according to some of the Bee readers, you'd think I was a bad guy - that's for sure. And even the article... it has an unwritten bent that kinda makes me (and several thousand other pastors) out to be the rebels. You can read the article here.

    To add to this seemingly benign FRONT PAGE article of the Bee... Fox 40 News called this morning and wants to do an on-camera interview tomorrow. Seriously? Is this really that big of a deal... well... except for the 5000 pastors who took "The Pastor's Pledge," promising to use the Bible as their primary sermon source?

    WHOA! Wait a second. Who says that I'm not already using the Bible as my primary sermon source? Let's think about that for a moment. If Pastor Joe Schmoe was one of the elite and uber spiritual 5000 pastors who took the pledge - and he wrote a sermon with his primary source as the Bible... and then I wanted to preach it a year later... does that mean the sermon is no longer a Bible based sermon? Did somehow the Source get changed in that message?

    Why can't I find a pastor who uses the Bible as his primary source and then utilize that great Biblical CONCEPT while tweaking it to fit my personality with personal stories and illustrations?

    Seems like I should be able to be in the 'Bible Source Club' too. In fact, if you read this article - I think I'm already qualified to be one of the 5000 along with Pastor Schmoe. :) Additionally, the whole "Pastor's Pledge" was started by www.sermoncentral.com - a leading provider of sermons and sermon resources as a way to encourage pastors to focus on the Bible as they consult other resources for inspiration in communicating as effectively as possible.

    What do you think... should I do the Fox 40 News interview... or am I being painted as the bad guy here? Comment below if you like.

    Thursday
    30Apr2009

    What is a Legacy Church?

    Dr. Stephen Gray, the guy I wrote my first book with, came out with another book this year that is turning the church upside down (in a good way). It's called, "Legacy Churches" and the response has been off the chart with everyone clamouring for a piece of the pie.

    I think he sorta 'accidently' stumbled upon this great idea... but it has now become something way bigger than he could have ever have imagined. It's a great, short read and I highly recommend it. There are literally thousands of churches that not only need to read this, but to implement it as well.

    The kingdom will be greater because of this book.

    Tuesday
    31Mar2009

    Is Satan Real? ABC Nightline Face-Off Debate

    WOW! This is a pretty amazing debate (click here) about Satan's actual existence. Mark Driscoll (pastor of Mars Hill Bible Church) and Annie Lobert (founder of "Hookers For Jesus") face off against the clueless Deepak Chopra and Bishop Carlton Pearson regarding, "Is Satan Real?"

    This is just a little long but it is well worth your time. Pastor Mark Driscoll did an excellent job representing Christ, the church, and believers in Christ. He was outside his normal abrasive self. Hopefully, there were thousands of people to hear the gospel in a very interesting, but sometimes frustrating conversation!

    If you'd like, let me know your thoughts below by pushing the 'Post a Comment' button.

    Sunday
    29Mar2009

    Stats, Facts, and Interesting Video About YOU and Your World

    Check this out. I found this at "already been chewed' - a very creative blog space by Barton Damer.

     Most certainly makes you think... huh? I wonder what my 9 & 6 year old kids college education will look like. How do you prepare for stuff like this? In fact, how does the church get in the game with this type of progress and technology? Or do we?

    If you don't see the video - click here!

    Monday
    23Mar2009

    Fasting Update - WOW, WOW!

    The 21 Day Fast is just a week underway and NUMEROUS people are growing in their faith. Here is the rundown!

    Approximately 450 people are involved in some fasting endeavor.

    20 people are doing the full-on 21 Day Daniel Fast. Most are fasting from all meat, bread, sweets (including coffee, caffeine, soda, etc) and anything else that most of us find enjoyable to consume. :)

    115 people chose at least one full day to fast completely from everything but water (including 2 children). This number also includes a few duplicates as some are fasting more than one day. Regardless, this should produce some amazing results over the next three weeks as most every day has at least four or five people fasting for themselves to get closer to God, for Impact, and for unchurched people to get saved at our Easter Series, "It's Personal".

    An additional 334 people are fasting from various things for various time periods over the next 21 days. This includes 92 children who are fasting for 21 days from 'something.' It could be sweets, 'fast food,' video games, technology, etc. Some adults are fasting for 21 days in several areas of their life as well. For instance, my kids are fasting from desert for 21 days - WOW! And my daughter is fasting from sweets as well (with just one slip-up so far with her grandparents... it's hard to say 'no' to root beer floats).

    The point is, some 450 people are growing in their faith, stretching their comfort level, going deeper, and prayingfor our church and its ministry to the unchurched. (This even includes about a dozen prison inmates from Folsom who are joining us in the fast.)

    May the fires of evangelism remain WHITE HOT at Impact. May YOU continue to reach OUT as people are more receptive than ever to a word about God! These are amazing times we're living in... be a part of it!

    If you haven't checked out the site yet, head to Impact's 21 Day Fast site... print out the CALENDAR and read the daily verses and prayer requests for the 21 days. You can also find recipes, FQA's, food guidelines, etc. God is doing something supernatural here. Don't miss out!

    Saturday
    21Mar2009

    Fish Frenzy

    I have to admit, I love tropical fish. I love the tranquility that comes with their graceful movements. Seriously, it's great therapy... especially the way the Sacramento Kings have played this year.

    They're also a pain. Keeping up with the water cleanliness. The filters. The food. It all just adds up to 'work.'

    Kinda sounds like church to me. There's nothing like seeing people come to Christ. The joy of knowing that our people had something to do with that. It's awesome. It's also a pain. Cause with more people comes more stuff that needs to be 'cleaned up.' More crap needs to be filtered. More people need to be fed. And with twice the fish... I mean, people... we have twice the problems and 'issues.'

    But it's SO WORTH IT! Helping to grow people up is not easy. Taking care of new believers is hard work. I hope those of you who are mature believers understand your grossly important role of helping take care of these new folks. There is little that is more difficult, or more rewarding, than growing people in their faith.

    Monday
    16Mar2009

    21 Day Daniel Fast... WOW!

    This is it kids - the 21 Day Daniel Fast began yesterday. For me and my wife, it all began Friday morning. I gotta tell ya, I am looking forward to a gigantic Mt Dew big gulp at the end of this thing... like maybe 6am on the Friday 3 weeks from now.

    I am truly amazed and blown away by the response from the people of Impact. I am honored and priveleged to serve alongside so many people of faith.

    Here's the deal though... can you imagine what God is going to do throughout the next three weeks and beyond? Seriously! This is going to be absolutely amazing. People are seeking God, praying for lost people to come to Christ during our Easter series, "It's Personal," and they're going deeper in their own walks.

    Be watching for stats this week on just how many people are doing the 21 Day Daniel Fast, one-day complete fasts, and miscellaneous fasting from all sorts of things over the next three weeks.

    You Go God!

    Sunday
    15Mar2009

    Confessions of a Kings Fan

    Ok - so I got some free tickets to attend the Friday Kings / Cavaliers game. I was incredibly excited because the seats were row "H" and on the isle at center court. I was also pumped about seeing LeBron James - probably the best player in the league.

    The Kings really beat the Cav's. Serious. They outplayed them up and down the court with a 16 point lead with just 30 seconds left in the 3rd quarter.

    That's when the Kings choked... they just started playing like wussy's. They tried to protect the lead... to be too careful. They stopped being aggressive. They stopped attacking on offense.

    I HATED THE GAME! It was ours. It was a win. It was in the bag. And we choked... again! I went home and was physically mad. Then... I was even more mad at myself for being mad about another stupid loss. I would rather have lost by 20 than have it go down to the wire like that... and choke.

    Oh, I'm still a fan... it's in my blood. I wish I could get a transfusion, but I won't.

    Here's the insight. I think we do the same in the church. We see people come to Christ (we get a lead), and then we go into protect mode. We just want to 'keep our lead.' We don't continue to be aggressive. We don't continue to passionately reach out to unchurched people.

    And that, my friends, is more than disappointing. I am so thrilled that we have a church that continues to reach out! As we grow bigger than we've ever been (well over 700 now), we continue to be aggressive, to seek ways to reach out, to not protect our lead but to gain on our lead.

    I love Impact Community Church.

    Thursday
    11Dec2008

    I Want To Go Deeper

    We've all heard it. You might have said it. I have talked about it.

    "I WANT TO GO DEEPER!"

    Perry Noble is the pastor at Newspring Church in Anderson, SC. He is pretty outspoken and I like his style. If you have ever thought this, said this, or heard someone say this - you really MUST go check out Perry's Blog about "You Are Not Deep Enough" - you'll love it... or hate it. Either way, I hope you read it.

    Friday
    05Dec2008

    TRIBES - Seth Godin - Awesome Book

    If you've got a little time, may I suggest a phenomenal new book, "TRIBES" by Seth Godin.

    If you're into leadership, a business owner, an innovator and/or a manager who wants to make a difference - then this book is for YOU!

    Seriously, it's one of the best books on leadership I've read in years. It was a quick read, challenging, inspiring and incredibly insightful.

    It's about the heretics of this world. (not a religious thing). It's about those who WILL NOT settle for the status quo. It's for those who want to make a difference... to make an IMPACT on this world.

    I hope you'll take the time to read it - you can purchase it at Amazon right here if you'd like.

    Tuesday
    25Nov2008

    Oprah Winfrey Leads World's Largest Cult

    Folks, it is unbelievable. You have to watch this video and hear the exact words come out of Oprah's mouth.

    I haven't always agreed with Oprah but I've always respected her and her influence. The time has come to actually see her for what she is - the leader of the world's largest cult.

    The first church of Oprah is alive and well - millions are following. And the problem is, they can't see her for what she is. A well meaning deceiver.

    Check out the video.

    After watching the video - what do YOU think? Should anything be done?

    Friday
    14Nov2008

    Sacramento Kings Games

    WOW - I get to go to the Sacramento Kings game tonight. I figured that I probably wouldn't be able to get to any games this season due to some financial readjustments.

    But out of the first five home games, I have had the opportunity to attend two of them - the home opener and tonight's game. HOW? Because of awesome and generous friends. Last Sunday, a man came up after church and put something in my front shirt pocket and walked away. I finished my conversation with someone else and then pulled out the two 'lower level' tickets and chased the guy outside to thank him.

    What a blessing for me... especially when they win. Tonight the Phoenix Suns come to town. I'm not EXPECTING a win - but am very HOPEFUL for one! It'll be a great time either way!

    GO KINGS!

    Sunday
    12Oct2008

    Be Straight Up... Will Ya?

    Every now and then you run across something that makes you really think. This blog comes from www.PerryNoble.com and hits the nail right on the head. I realize at Impact we don't typically have these kinds of lingering attitudes but I have heard most of these statements. Most of those folks making these statements don't go here anymore. So here is the blog - enjoy. Do you think Perry is right on this?


    What They REALLY Mean…


    One of the lessons I’ve learned while being in the ministry for the past 17 years is sometimes what people say isn’t exactly true…things such as…

    (WARNING…you will probably only like this post if you are a pastor or a staff member of a church!)

    What They Say:  “I’m looking for a church that preaches the Word!”

    What They Mean:  “I’m looking for a church that preaches MY view of the Word.  I think the BLANK translation should be used…I think BLANK should be talked about a lot while BLANK should be ignored.  And if you ever stop preaching my view of the Word I will leave and tell others that you don’t preach the Word!”

    What They Say:  “Lot’s of people have been coming to me and saying they don’t like is…”

    What They Mean:  “I basically only have three friends…and all of them think exactly like me.  The other night we were enjoying a time of self righteousness because, after all, we are right about everything…and were also slandering you (in the form of prayer requests) and thought it would be wise to approach you with our pet peeve.  We’ve actually talked to no one else about this but said “lots” because we wanted to validate our dysfunction.”

    What They Say:  “I’m leaving the church.”

    What They Mean:  “Beg me to stay.  If you will just ask me I will share with you several ways you can compromise God’s vision that He’s given you, thus becoming nothing more than a people pleasing pastor who is more interested in popularity than obedience.  If you don’t bow to my demands I will remind you that I tithe and that the church needs my money, reducing you to a mere preaching whore…one who is paid for a service for the pleasure of another person.”

    What They Say:  “I want a church that is more focused on discipleship.”

    What They Mean:  “I want a church where everyone knows me and how important I am!  I don’t want to reach people who are different from me, be it economic class or race or even musical preference.  I already know WAY more than I do…but I somehow equate spirituality with knowledge rather than application and I rather enjoy feeling intellectually superior to those who don’t know as much as me.”

    What They Say:  “Don’t take this personally…but…”

    What They Mean:  “I am about to lower the BOOM on you…but you can’t get angry because I told you not to take it personally.  Even though you have dedicated your life to this and pretty much invest every ounce of energy you have to this cause…and I think about it once or twice a week…you need to receive my attacks, even when they are personal…and you cannot retaliate because, remember, it’s not personal.”

    OKAY, that was fun!  I typed it all with a smile.  Trust me…I’m not mad or frustrated with anyone…I just thought a pastor or two MIGHT get a smile out of this.  :-)